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My real name is Tracey, and I'm a freelance editor (thirty-four books in the past five years), a sometime book critic and a novelist working towards publication. To date I've edited historical romance, Westerns, historical YA, a series of children's fantasy novels, a number of anthologies, including one benefiting the Trevor Project, science fiction, fantasy, and a series with an imperfect (but still celestial) angel as a protagonist.. I love accuracy in novels set in the real world (or in a world that resembles it), protagonists whose actions affect the plot (rather than those who wait for others to make plot-related decisions), female protagonists with hopes, ambitions and dreams beyond acquiring a boyfriend, and complex plots that hang together well. (Oh, and I'm disabled.)
really all you need to know about the american health care system is that there’s a popular tv series where a man turns to cooking industrial quantities of crystal meth in order to pay his hospital bills
Oh, and it’s set in the real world. Not science fiction, not any variety of fantasy, not an alternate reality.
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Chief Belmar Says Protesters Arrested by Mistake In an unexpected twist, Chief Belmar testified that the 5 second rule was only supposed to apply at night and that miscommunication led to its application during the day. Must read.
The Agencies Investigating Ferguson Brief and fascinating article that quickly summarizes the various agencies conducting investigations in Ferguson. This also includes a brief description of the investigation type. Must read.
Darren Wilson Involved in Another Case There is a drug case headed to a grand jury that involves Darren Wilson. Quick, important read.
Clergy Join Protesters In Protest This article describes the scene across from the Ferguson PD when clergy joined in protest and a clergyman was arrested.
Protesters Held As Hostages Protesters negotiated with police over the weekend for the release of other protesters while demonstrating across from the Ferguson PD. Important read.
ACLU Challenges the 5-Second Rule This article provides an overview of the ACLU lawsuit challenging the implementation of the 5-second rule with Ferguson protesters.
Defend the Right to Know This succinct editorial calls on the public and other allies to put pressure on Ferguson to not charge excessive fees as they comply with FOIA or Sunshine Law requests.
Officer Shot Did Not Have Time to Activate Body Cam The Ferguson officer that was shot apparentlydid not have time to activate his body cam. Interesting lens into the body cam issue.
Letter from Langdon, MO A civic leader in another Missouri town pens this op-ed reflecting on the events of Ferguson and a link between rural areas of MO and urban/suburban areas re: police shootings.
Why So Many Officers? This is an invaluable article for understanding the municipal police forces in Missouri and why some even have police forces. Must read.
Influenced by Ferguson, Chicago Families Demand Action This article describes recent calls to action by Chicago families to review police shootings using deadly force.
Protester Response to the Ferguson “Misconceptions” The City of Ferguson released an 18-point “Misconceptions” document earlier this week. This is the protester’s response to the “Misconceptions.”Must read.
The Demands Launched recently, this site is the platform for the Ferguson demands. It is a living list of demands and is open for you to add comments and suggestions that can inform the next iteration. Must engage.
when i was a child i used to think teens were grown ups and when i was a teen i thought college students were grown ups and now that im a college student im just like what the hell is a grown up anymore
Now that I’m older than college age I’ve concluded that grown ups are a myth.
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Every time Steve Rogers has sex, a bald eagle is born
No wonder they’re endangered.
are you telling me that every bald eagle is an offspring of steve rogers
On August 9, 2007, the bald eagle was removed from the federal list of threatened and endangered species. After nearly disappearing from most of the United States decades ago, the bald eagle is now flourishing across the nation and no longer needs the protection of the EndangeredSpecies Act.
Based on the most recent population figures, the [U.S. Fish and Wildlife] Service estimates that there are at least 9,789 nesting pairs of bald eagles in the contiguous United States.
Or, in other words…
STEVE ROGERS IS HAVING ALL OF THE SEX.
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Anonymous said: as a child who, years ago now, was neglected and abused by a woman who called herself my mother, I sneer at those who dare call what Regina does abuse. They know NOTHING. I'd have killed to have an 'abusive' mom like her who was so into pleasing me, she'd do anything 4 me. Who would put me first and stand between me & danger. The woman who I had to call 'mom', when she bothered noticing me, was distant, mocking and mean. People who call Henry abused know nothing of what real abuse is. Children.
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I hope you don’t mind me reblogging this but I think this is an invaluable perspective on a conversation that has rapidly spun out of control and into mindless hysteria. Thank you so much for the bravery of sharing your story.
Reblogging because people need to understand they are making a mockery of real life people when they make these claims against Regina.
I am an abuse victim that feels triggered by Regina. I see her actions of erasing Henry’s memory, using enchanted branches to hold Henry back when he wanted to leave, of trying to kill the people he loves so that she could possess him as abuse.
Henry was frightened of Regina—she had to force him to come with her by threatening to kill the whole town of people. She had to erase his memories of her plans to destroy a town in order to make change the situation to suit her plans, not caring for his distress or his feelings in this. He was ready to build a weapon room to protect himself from her because he was so afraid of her.
Regina actions are very similar (minus magic of course) to someone in my life that hurt me—to say that people like me are making a mock of abuse is offensive and hurtful.
If people like this relationship, fine. If people like how this relationship has improved, fine. But that doesn’t mean that others don’t have a right to feel triggered by Regina’s actions towards Henry in season 1 and 2. That doesn’t mean that people like me are making a mock of abuse, cause we are not—many of use feel rightfully triggered by her actions towards Henry in season 1 and 2.
Sneering at us for being triggered, accusing us of mocking abuse when many of us are victims of child abuse, is not right or fair to us. It is fine to like the relationship and defend it, but not to look down on others that rightfully are troubled by it and reminded of their own abuse.
Not one single word of this says anything against people who are triggered by Regina.
I am really sorry for anyone who had to endure abuse and I sort of understand why they are triggered by Regina’s story. But I have a feeling that it’s not the canon story that trigger people. Even if they firmly believe it, it’s not. It’s their own emotions and past experiences that they project onto the Regina-Henry relationship which is canonically not abusive, but it was initially presented in a way that it was easy to project such sort of things to it. And once the abusive past and negative emotions are projected onto the original story, there comes to life a headcanon that is really disturbing to the person who created it. And THAT triggers that person.
And on an interesting note, this is the same psychological phenomenon that happened to Regina when she projected things into Snow’s actions and created a new “headcanon”, a new “reality”. IMO.
WOW HOW ABOUT YOU NOT WRITE OFF MY LEGITIMATE FEELINGS OVER REGINA AND HENRY’S ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND HOW IT RELATES TO ME IN REAL LIFE???? Like you do realize you are literally speaking over real abuse victims/survivors and telling them that their feelings are not valid and obviously they are projecting like fuck offfff. Regina lies to Henry, manipulates him, gaslights him, erases his memories, and then keeps promising she will change but NEVER DOES. These are all things my ABUSIVE father did to me (minus the memory erasing) and you saying it’s not just bc you like Regina is fucked up and you need to fucking STOP.
Very long post ahead showing very canon abuse with pictures to help prove.
Actual conon events that happened onscreen.
- Regina left her 10 year old son with a history of running away alone, with no adult supervision for at least 8 hours while she had sex. We know she’s done it fairly regularly because Regina asked Graham about their next ‘Saturday Council Meeting.’ Think about if Henry had gone to the mines without telling anyone like he did in the NEXT EPISODE. He would have been trapped down there for 8 hours without anyone knowing. Regina could have called him to check up on him or hired someone to watch him for the day- again, this is a child with a history of disobeying rules and ruinng away- but she didn’t. That’s failure to protect and would result in CPS intervention.
- She lied to her son about his bio mom saying she was a con women and she stole Archie’s files when in fact she abused her power to force Archie to give Emma her son’s PRIVATE information.
- She manipulated the situation so Henry would walk in on his bio mom, who Regina knows he looks up to and admires, calling his beliefs, ‘crazy’. She then proceeds to smirk at Emma and say, ‘Your move.’
- She blackmailed her son’s mental health professional into telling him that if he didn’t stop talking about the curse- which she very well knew was true and Henry was completely right in what he was saying about it- that he was delusional and he would be taken away and ‘locked up’. She told him to ‘take that delusion out of my son’s head and crush it’. Again, fully well knowing that it wasn’t a delusion at all but reality. She told a therapist to crush the truth out of her son’s head.
- When this resulted in her son running away- again- and being put in serious danger? She once again tried to blackmail Archie into crushing the truth out of her son. She had no intent at stopping, even after it resulted in her son running away and being put in danger. All that together is an attempt at gaslighting, serious psychological abuse.
- She isolated him by bringing him to a town where no one ever ages. He couldn’t make friends or bond with anyone his age because he grew up and they didn’t.
- She crumpled his artwork in front of him and called it a waste of trees and a waste of his time.
- She torn his castle down in front of him because she said it was ‘dangerous’. But she know about it weeks before. Sidney had the pictures to prove it. So, either she really believed it was dangerous and continued to let her son play on it until the time was right and her new playground was built or she torn it down because she didn’t want him spending time with Emma there.
- She killed Graham and Henry knew she did it. Afterward, he told Emma he wanted to stop trying to break the curse because he, ‘Didn’t want to upset her anymore,’ He was depressed and felt hopeless for weeks. And yet Regina insists that ‘He’s fine.’ when Emma tried to talk to her about it.
- She has the fact that he was born in jail published where he can read about it without consideration of his feelings on the matter.
- She tried to send Hansel and Gretel, the only friends in all Henry’s years in Storybrooke, over the town line. She knew that people were hurt or killed if they tried and she didn’t care if Henry’s friends died as long as it kept her curse in place.
- Her poisoned apple turnover results in Henry flatlining and his soul being sent to a burning, fiery room that is worst than death. I don’t care if it was meant for Emma. It’s like leaving a loaded gun lying around and your child being shot by it. Regina is responsible.
- She threatened to hurt people Henry cared about if he didn’t come home with her.
- She physically restrained him from leaving the house with tree branches.
- She later tried to cast a curse on him that would take away his free will.
- She invaded his mind with magic and wiped him memories of her telling him that she was planning on killing everyone else he loved.
These are not mistakes. It’s not just one, isolated incident. These are deliberate choices made repeatedly over a long period of time. This is abuse we saw take place onscreen.
Here are some things Lana has said in interviews about Regina and Henry’s relationship.
'Parrilla does get to play a mom on TV — though not an especially nice one. As Regina, adopted mother to Henry, the actress admits that it can be tough “being such a royal bitch” to the young Gilmore.
“The minute they yell, ‘Cut,’ I hug Jared and kiss him,” she says. “He and I have incredible relationship. And he and his mom are two of my closest friends.”
Here is the link.
Lana Parrilla: Yes, this relationship to Regina is probably the most important relationship in her life currently, and probably forever, he’s her son. So she really wants her son back and she lost him. So a good portion of this second season is her trying to get him back and making up for what she’s done to not just Henry but to everyone in the town.
Like you said, basically Regina let everyone in the town think Henry was crazy and that he’s a liar. Now that the cat’s out of the bag, it’s like well, what sort of mother would allow that to happen? What mother would let people think her son is crazy? It’s a horrible thing for a child to experience. She needs to redeem herself, that’s pretty much where she is right now.
Here is the link.
It’s not just Henry. Regina has a history of hurting children.
They say a picture says a thousand words.
This is Hansel and Gretel. Regina is about to sent them off, like she did dozens of others, to a cannibalistic blind witch.
This is Regina choking a young, peasant girl.
This is Regina dreaming about choking her soon to be step-daughter to death.
This is the village Regina ordered slaughtered.
This is the village before Regina ordered them slaughtered. Look carefully. There are children standing with there parents.
This is Owen crying after Regina separated him from his father because he would not agree to stay and be her son.
This is Grace. Regina separated her from her father-her only living parent- both before and after the curse.
This is Regina about to go on her merry way to murder an infant Emma Swan.
How about some pictures of Regina and Henry?
This is Regina explaining to her son that it really is ok if she murders his grandmother and casts a spell to take away his free will.
This is Regina crumpling her son’s artwork right in front of him and calling it a waste of trees and a waste of his time.
This is Regina invading her son’s mind with magic and erasing his memories of her telling him she is going to kill everyone he loves except her because, “I don’t have a choice. As long as there are other people in our lives you can never fully be mine.”
Regina abused Henry. Canon fact. Doesn’t mean you can’t like her but it still doesn’t change what happened onscreen.
One final note. You would never say to a victim of physical abuse well, I was sexually abused. Don’t call what you went through abuse, I’ll tell yu what abuse really looks like!
One form of abuse doesn’t negate another form. Just because what one person went through is arguably worst than another doesn’t mean the other is not real and trying to invalidate it or saying someone is projecting is not hurtful.
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